An Open Letter to Habibi’s Next

27 Apr

You have something now that was once one of my most treasured possession.
You aren’t his first; nor was I.
I had a hard time coming to terms with the fact that there was someone before me who had had him; whom he had once whispered the words he whispered to me – someone he went to when his soul needed healing or the joy in his heart needed to be shared.

I admit at times, when my mind had wandered for a second & loosen it’s grip on my heart; allowing it to hope I would be his last.

I am not naïve but with enough love, even the most deeply wounded hearts start to believe they can fly again.

He gave me all that love and even more.
And for quite some time, I did fly.

I will wonder if you wear glasses and when you take them off if the sight of your eyes makes him melt as they did with me.

I will wonder if he calls you the most beautiful woman on earth as well, I cringe at the possibility that he does; the man that I know does not know how to love half-heartedly.

He will go to any extent for you; he will be fiercely possessive but hide it better than most.
And you know something?
You will love every second of it; this possessiveness.
He will protect you, he will daddy you over, and he will drown you in love.

I have one piece of advice for you:

Never take his drive away from him.
It is his fuel; the one thing that gives him the aggression to believe himself invincible.

Believe in his drive; believe in his invincibility.

Not that he can’t fall – it’s just that there is no power on earth that can keep him from getting back up and going at it harder than ever before.
Don’t take that away from him.
If he loves you enough, it will break him.
If he doesn’t, it will make him bitter.

He is an aggressive man; an aggressively loving man.
But it stems from the passion I am sure you adore.

But he is as gentle as he is aggressive with the woman he loves.

Deep down, he wants to love.

He wants to give you every single joy in the world; he will do anything in his power to see your face light up from the way he loves.

He will be jealous of your past-
And yes he will be unreasonable at times.

Be patient with him.

– because when you are at your most unreasonable, he will gather you in those arms that can envelop your very soul; he will not let you go until you sigh out your grievances.
He will take care of them for you;
you are his woman, he is the one you can rely on.
When nothing makes sense; he will set it right, by himself.

He will never hurt you willingly and if he finds out he has hurt you unintentionally; it will rip his heart out.

And God save a third person who dares to attempt to hurt you.
I was not kidding when I said he is protective — he cannot bear to see you sad.

Never sleep on a fight, because when you wake up, you’ll find him awake; he can’t sleep on one.

Never block channels of communication; never go that far away.
– It hurts him more than he can tell you.

It may seem unfair at times but if you love him enough you’ll always want to honor him exactly the way that he is. 
– Return the love that he gives you; just being there, no matter what.

He won’t every try to change you; with his love he’ll accept you for all that you are and everything that you’re not.
He doesn’t need change. 
Ever.
He has a beautifully rare kind of love.

Know that you’re one of the most special people in his life; he will tell you this often.
– Don’t forget this when he takes time away on the seemingly longer weeks.
You can’t make it stop; just be there.
– be patient with him; as he is with you.

Always believe in his love with all your heart; it’s the one thing that will always conquer his restlessness.

Hell always love you during these days; know that so he can rest peavefully, before starting new on a better day.

Love him; it’s the most rewarding experience you will have in your life.

Don’t impose conditions and he will make you feel emotions you didn’t know existed.

He will teach you of the exact location of your heart; he will constantly be tugging at the strings there
– and it will ache for him when he’s away.

He will tell you stories: listen to them.
He has a wealth of knowledge he doesn’t know what to do with except share.
There are aspects of his childhood he loves and those he hates.
Make him tell you both; the ones he loves are worth being a part of and the ones he hates drive him in some manner.

Kiss him. Kiss him for the sake of kissing him.

Kiss him because his lips are the softest thing on earth; kissing him feels like floating on wisps of cotton candy and tastes even better.

Ask him to give you his superman hug, but be careful, your body can not take it for more than five seconds.

Run your finger down his back; you’ll find this one spot that always makes him jump.

Hold hands, you will know how much it means to him the first time you do.

Sometimes just put your head on his chest to hear his heartbeat.
Think your own thoughts to the beat of his heart.
It will soothe your mind and heal your own heart.
– His love can renew your soul; you will breathe lighter and speak softer. 

Always believe in him because he’ll never stop believing in you;  It’s just the way he is.
– he is that kind of love.

If he can’t be there to catch you; know that it would hurt him to see you fall.

His heart is solid and let it be yours to hold.

But of course, you would only be reading this because you are with  him now.
You know all these things.
You love him and are intimately familiar with all his quirks.
You don’t need me to tell you all of that.

What I will tell you, though, is that you’ve got the most precious thing on earth with you; I wish for you to cherish it for all your life.

Don’t lose it, don’t waste it, and don’t squander it on petty issues.

Let him take you to a world only he has access to.

Love him, and let him love you, and I assure you, you will never be the same again. 

* So now — I Let Go & Let God

Sincerely,

J

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One Response to “An Open Letter to Habibi’s Next”

  1. Jenn Kate April 27, 2013 at 9:32 pm #

    I took this off my blog but I think it should be left on here for someone – some day.

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